No, I ain't god, or King of anything. Actually, I am a Baron, but that's in an entirely different game than we play here.
But snickering at someone's misfortune just because you have some ongoing online feud is in poor taste, period.
"Did you hear? Joe Blow crashed his bike and almost lost a leg. Oh well, he was a moron anyway and probably deserved it." You may have typed a single-word question, but your intent was immediately clear to everyone. I'm just the first one who wasn't afraid to call you on it.
Remember Joe, I actually consider you a friend and even I get tired of your cockiness and arrogance at times. Whatever your problems with Tom, or anyone else for that matter, just let it go.
I really do hope that things are going as well for you and your family as you say. But if that's the case, it isn't proof that you're right. If anything it should make all this petty bickering seem even more trivial and inconsequential than it really is.
So just let it go, and stop dragging all this garbage out in front of everyone. (That bit goes for Tom, too. It takes two to keep an argument going.)
Just be glad our Miss Manners isn't reading all this. She'd give you boys a right whooping.